To ppL out there yg krg senang dgn saya..

Kadang-kadang aku tak faham dengan sikap manusia yang agak suka menjaga tepi kain orang lain. Tiba-tiba nak jadi concern dengan aku(sebelum ni tak penah plak concern...~). Aku lepak dan kawan dengan sesape, suka hati atok nenek aku la. Yang korang nak kecoh-kecoh apsal? Aku kacau hidup korang ke? Ade aku menyebok hal korang? Please la weh, Don't be so typical wif ur thoughts. Aku nak lepak dengan junior ke, dengan Indonesia ke, suka-suka hati nenek aku la.. Yang korang tak puas hati apsal? Sebab aku tak lepak dengan korang??? eh come on la!! Macam korang nak lepak pernah ajak la plak kan.. pastu nak kecoh sebab aku tak lepak dengan korang. bapak childish camtuh. Grow up dude!! We're not kids anymore.

Lagi satu, kalau tak kenal orang, jangan nak memandai cakap and komplen la. Masing-masing ada life masing-masing. Orang kata, berkawan biar ikhlas, jangan berkawan sebab nak ubah seseorang ikut suka hati, and then tinggal orang tu w/out words. GHALIL ADAB namenye tuh. Jangan ingat aku diam, aku ok dengan perangai korang. Setakat aku boleh sabar, aku bersabar lagi. jangan lupa plak, kesabaran seseorang tu ada batasnya. kita secara sah bergelar pelajar universiti, jadi tolong la berlagak macam pelajar universiti sket.


Lagi satu kepada kawan-kawan yang bergelar baik, orang kata nak buat baik tu jangan buat setengah jalan. Agak-agak aa sket, dari 2 tahuin lepas pon korang suka camni. kalau dah tolong ambilkan dokumen atau barang orang tu, pandai-pandai la hubungi tuan punya. Orang hantar dokumen tu, mesti ada orang yang ambil. So kalau tak de yang suruh ambil, tak payah la poyo tunjuk baik tolong ambilkan kalau tak reti-reti nak contact. Panas lak aku Ni dah kali keberapa korang buat camni, aku diam je. kali ni tolong la bijak berfiir sikit ok!!



P/S: Sape yang makan cili akan terasa kepedasannya, tak pon akan mengalami diarrhea...

plus, sorry to be this direct, mungkin aku dah mencecah batas kesabaran aku..

Hey Monday

The power lines went out
and i am all alone
i don't really care at all not answering my phone
all the games you played
the promises you made
couldn't finish what you started only darkness still remains

Lost sight
couldn't see
when it was you and me

blow the candles out
looks like a solo tonight
I'm beginning to see the light
blow the candles out
looks like a solo tonight
but i think ill be alright

Been black and blue before
there's no need to explain
i am not the jaded kind playbacks such a waist
your invisible, invisible to me
my wish is coming true erase the memory of your face

Lost sight couldn't see
when it was you and me
blow the candles out
looks like a solo tonight
I'm beginning to see the light
blow the candles out
looks like a solo tonight
but i think ill be alright

one day you will wake up
with nothing but your sorries
ans someday you will get back
everything you gave me

blow the candles out
looks like a solo tonight
I'm beginning to see the light
blow the candles out
looks like a solo tonight
but i think I'll be alright

Hari yang saye rase xbest...

Sedih je arini...semua membe tak balik lagi...
huhu terpakse melepakkan diri seorang diri. haih sedey2.....

Plus, in lecture hall, the lecturers suddenly asked" are u egyptian??"
I said "noooo!!!! I am not..I'm Malaysian...isk3!!"

This maghrib plak, my bawab kt bawah, the daughter actually I think, she bell our house until I couldn't bear it. I was like mad n answer the intercom, while cursing2..and the thing that makes me even mad is, they were laughing at me as if I'm making a joke which is very very very disrespectful. They were like making fun of me. Ooh please, u people pissstttt me oofffff!!! GHALIL ADAB!!

Memang hari2 yang saye rase xbest, I dont know y egyptian have no respect to people here especially towards us. We're the guest, they should have respect and be honoured to have us as a guest.haih!! sigh2!

Spades Lover

Miza & I, we have a chat this morning n came to a conclusion that we like spades..it is because we think that spades is the highest n the strongest...so cool!!!

How to trust your partner

The best parts of being in a relationship are the moments of shared intimacy and trust. You have chosen someone to open up top, someone that you feel you can trust with your heart and soul. That is why it is so devastating to find out that he has been cheating on you. The aftermath of this revelation is hard on both of you - it is tough on you because your trust has been betrayed, and it is tough on him because he knows how angry and hurt you are.

It would not be easy - rebuilding trust never is - but if you remember a few important things, you can make your relationship stronger than it was before:

1. Rebuilding trust is something you have to do together.
This is going to be tough, because you are both very unhappy - essentially, you are working on a relationship with someone you do not trust. You may need to take a "cooling off" period, after which you agree to rebuild trust. But it will take both of you. If either of you is not serious about doing the work necessary to repair your relationship, you are sunk. Take some time to get clear, ask yourself if you want to work on this relationship, and whether you can deal with the problem of having had to live in the past. If you can forgive, and understand that most of our miseries come from living in the past, you have a higher chance of rebuilding trust in this relationship.

2. Acknowledge your emotions.
You are both going to be feeling hurt, angry and sad after you find out about his cheating. Both of you have to deal with your feelings in a mature, communicative fashion. You will want him to understand your point of view and the pain you are feeling - but you are going to also have to listen to him and try to understand how he feels, too.

Take care to make each other feel understood rather than dwelling on accusations and apologies. Try to see the situation from his perspective, and acknowledge his feelings verbally (statements like, "I know you are confused and angry right now") and own up to anything that you have done wrong, too.

3. Make the right kind of apologies.
"I'm sorry" is not a free pass, nor is it a reset button that puts everything back the way it was before. In fact, your guy probably blurted out "I'm sorry" as soon as he got caught, in the hopes that it would magically make the whole problem disappear. A genuine apology is not a token designed to appease your partner - real apologies, from the heart, only work after they have been given some thought. They also do not come with excuses attached - "I'm sorry, but ..." negates the apology entirely. Apologizing should not be seen as another opportunity to say you were right! If he offers you an "I'm sorry, but .." apology, tell him that you would prefer an apology that do not have a "but" attached.

4. Both of you need to make promises for the future.
These may be as simple as "I won't cheat anymore" or as complicated as "I promise to let you know where I am when I'm not at work." These cannot be demands - they must be mutually agreed upon things that can reasonably been accomplished, related to the problem of his cheating. And you need to be very clear that both of you understand what these promises entail.

5. The promises you make while rebuilding trust must be kept.
After all, lack of trust is the problem here. Promises made must be kept when trying to rebuild trust. If one of you breaks a promise during this period, the resulting anger and disappointment will make matters even worse. It can even do more damage than the cheating did, because it shows that even when you know that your relationship hangs in the balance, you cannot be trusted to keep your word.

5. Keep the lines of communication open.
It will take more than a few apologies and promises to rebuild trust. You will need to talk about your fears, appreciate each other's good qualities, continue to talk about the promises you have made to each other, and continue to strengthen the bond that solidifies your relationship.

Rebuilding trust after your partner cheats is a lot of work. But if both of you are fully committed to the process, you may find that your love can grow even stronger with better communication and respect.

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Why is there a cold-hearted person in me?

Why suddenly I easily get pisstttttttt off when there's someone annoys me? Well normally, I'll get piss off but it will take a while. Arghhhhhhh!!!!!! stop it!!

I don't want the evil heart takes control over my mind and my soul. Please Ya Robb, lend me Your courage and patient. I want to feel that again within me. As far as I concern, I don't want to hurt any feelings just because of uncontrolable emotions(the bad one, of course).
Give me sanity for it helps me to be wise.

Puasa Di Bulan Ramadhan menurut baginda s.a.w

Sebelum menjalankan ibadat Ramadan, ada beberapa perkara yang perlu difahami, di antaranya ialah puasa Ramadan adalah rukun Islam yang keempat.

Hukumnya adalah fardu (wajib) yang langsung dari perintah Allah SWT, sebagaimana firman-Nya yang bermaksud: Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, diwajibkan atas kamu sekalian berpuasa sebagaimana diwajibkan atas orang-orang sebelum kamu, semoga kamu menjadi orang-orang yang bertakwa. (al-Baqarah: 183).

Dalam hadis dijelaskan, sabda Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud: Sesungguhnya Islam itu dibangun di atas lima (dasar). Kesaksian bahawa tidak ada Tuhan yang berhak disembah selain Allah dan Muhammad itu adalah utusan-Nya, menegakkan solat, menunaikan zakat, melaksanakan puasa Ramadan dan menunaikan haji. (riwayat Muslim).

Dari ayat dan hadis di atas berpuasa Ramadan hukumnya wajib atas setiap Muslim dan Muslimat yang sihat akalnya, dan telah mukalaf, tidak dalam keadaan musafir dan sakit. Khususnya bagi wanita, tidak dalam keadaan haid dan nifas.

Allah SWT mensyariatkan berpuasa dan pelbagai ibadat Ramadan sebagai salah satu program yang harus dilalui setiap muslim dan mukmin dalam pembentukan karakter takwa mereka.

Sebaliknya ancaman keras bagi orang-orang beriman yang tidak melaksanakan ibadat puasa Ramadan.

Ia sebagaimana yang disabdakan Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud: Ikatan dan penegak agama Islam itu ada tiga. Siapa yang meninggalkan salah satu darinya, maka ia telah kafir, halal darahnya iaitu: syahadat, solat fardu, puasa Ramadan. (riwayat Abu Ya'la dan Dailami). Yang dimaksudkan kafir ialah hukumnya seperti murtad.

Dalam hadis lain Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang bermaksud: Siapa yang berbuka satu hari dalam bulan Ramadan tanpa ada rukhsah (faktor yang membolehkan berbuka) dari Allah, maka tidak akan tergantikan walaupun ia melaksanakan puasa sepanjang masa. (riwayat Abu Daud, Ibnu Majah dan Tirmizi).

Jenis-jenis puasa itu terbahagi dua, pertama puasa fardu (wajib), dan kedua puasa tathowwu' (puasa sunat).

Adapun puasa wajib terbahagi tiga, pertama puasa Ramadan, iaitu puasa yang dilaksanakan selama bulan Ramadan seperti dijelaskan dalam surah al-Baqarah: 183.

Kedua, puasa kaffarat (puasa denda), iaitu puasa yang wajib dilakukan sebagai denda dari pelanggaran hukum seperti pelanggaran dalam ibadat haji, membunuh tidak sengaja, melanggar sumpah dan sebagainya.

Ketiga, adalah puasa nazar, iaitu jika seseorang bernazar dengan berpuasa bagi perkara yang dinazarkannya seperti jika ia sembuh dari penyakit dan sebagainya maka ia bernazar untuk berpuasa. Puasa seperti ini disebut dengan puasa nazar dan wajib hukumnya.

Puasa tathowwu' (puasa sunat), adalah puasa enam hari di bulan Syawal. Dalam hadis Rasulullah SAW dijelaskan: Siapa yang berpuasa Ramadan, kemudian dia teruskan dengan enam hari di bulan Syawal, seakan dia berpuasa sepanjang masa (tahun). (riwayat al-Jamaah kecuali Bukhari, Nasa'i)

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