Theory on how the diseases spread

Hi people, long time no see. How are you guys doing? Bla bla bla... well I'm not doing those rhetorical questions. Well after so long, I would like to expose to you guys about my new finding theories that I gain while I’m MIA. I was reading (well isn’t that always the way) about the production of sound called PHONATION. Well before I jump into a very bit different concepts, let me remind you something about this sound production. Our exhalation and inhalation processes which also known as respiration or breathing happens in larynx which is connected to bronchus, bronchioles and alveoli respectively. In a simple sentence is lung. So, it is well known as the site of gas exchange. Let us not drag those to another significant multisystem processes on how our body handling it. Back to the larynx, larynx is what you call a tube having our precious gift of Allah (God, bahgwan, budha, jesus according to your own religion), the VOCAL BOX. Here, the volume and pitch are manipulated by the movement of respective muscles, tendons and cartilages. This will generate a fundamental frequency or pitch. It is well controlled by the movement of vocal folds through adduction of arytenoid cartilages producing a vibration called phonation which also you heard as voice. The position of your lips, tongue, mouth and pharynx creates many different vowels and consonant sound as tone and world’s languages. In male, the vocal folds are longer and wider and can be seen as Adam’s apple (thyroid cartilage). In our normal breathing, the arytenoid cartilages medially rotates and open the vocal folds as a mass of gases run through it, thus opening the epiglottis. What will happen to the epiglottis when we stop or pause breathing as it happens during the swallowing of food or water? The epiglottis automatically will fall and close the airway passage of the larynx allowing food to enter the esophagus and stomach. Okay, this is the normal process happening in our body and that is not the point of writing this. The main point that I want to state here is this is exactly what happen during smoking. Shall I say that smoking process is the same as the eating process? Yes, how? The active smokers might relate this in an easier way. As for the passive smokers try to relate while you are enjoying your meal. Have you ever notice that when u eat or swallow food, you are not breathing or pause your breathing. Yes you are. Many of you now will start to focus on how you swallow your food right now, aren’t you? Haha, it’s okay, you should if you want to know the process. So, as I said before, epiglottis will closed the airway passage during swallowing. When eating or smoking, the epiglottis had closed your airway passage leading the bolus and smokes into the esophagus and stomach. That is why many active smokers are suffering from gastrictitis, liver problems and lung disease. As for the passive smokers, lung disease is relevant to inhalation of the smokes if you stand near the active smokers. That is all I want to share with you for the time being. I know it is kind of lame, but hope you gain some additional info. Bye bye now... -hugs & kisses-

Persediaan Bercinta -MESTI TAHU

Hola people,sorry la dah lama xupdate my blog. Btw, I nak kongsi satu topik yg agak menarik,tertarik, lg the bom..haa
tentang cinta. Apa dia cinta tu? takat cakap I lap u ,u lap me je ke? ada apa dengan cinta? ce wah mcm pilem OST.
Haha ok what ever pun, ada a few things yg kita kena sacrifice sikit utk memberi laluan kpd komitmen bg yg mahukannya. Mari kita lihat I follow!

PERSEDIAAN BERCINTA
Number One - Tidak Bebas Seperti Dahulu
# Sebelum bercinta haa,kebiasaannya hanya mak ayah I je yg akan masuk
campur hal kita. Namun sekarang bila dah double ni,seorg lg yg akan ikut campur urusan kita. Suka stay tidak,hilang 24 jam tak de kabar sikit,silap haribulan I report polis u..haihai

Number Two- Tanggungjawab Bertambah
# Mestilah I dgn U pun mak perhatian dari orang yg disayangi kan..
Ini bermakna tanggungjawab kita bertambah la sikit ye. Kalau dulu tanggungjawab I until I n family je,sekarang up sikit tanggungjawab menjaga serta mengambil berat tentang si dia.. Adehh!

Number Three - Bukan Si Dia Seorang
# U all pernah terfikir tak apabila kamu berkasih dengannya bererti kamu kita harus berkasih dengan ahli keluarganya. If keluarga Si dia ramah Dan mesra melayan kamu, so rilex je la kan. what if sebaliknya? haa..hampa nak kena pandai sket noh amik peranan..

Number Four - Tidak Seindah Waktu Berkawan
# Masa mula2 nak ayat or memikat atau dalam proses berkawan, Si dia pasti tak pernah lupa bagi hadiah setiap kali ada hari istimewa. Bila dah declare BERCINTA ,harapan la wei..xyah dok syok sendiri berangan dia buat benda yg sama. Maklum la, dah dapat kan, so tak payah la nak bertungkus lumus pikat u lg...

Number Five - Proses Belajar
# kita kena ingat ya,masa bercinta tu la sebenarnya masa utk kita belajar mengenali dan berkongsi hidup dengannya. So jangan la letak harapan tinggi sangat nak semua perfect. I manusia gak sayang oi..kita mungkin ambil masa utk menyesuaikan diri dengan segala-galanya...Banyak sabar ye...

Tuu dia,sedikit sebanyak tips,harap2 sesuai la dengan hampa semua noh..
XOXO!

How to Forgive and Move On After an Affair

How do you forgive someone who has betrayed you? This may be one of the most challenging and life-changing tasks of your life. Forgiveness does not mean condoning another person's behavior. Forgiveness means letting go of your judgement of another and being able to see the other person with compassion. It is a necessary step for yourself. By forgiving another, you free yourself to move forward, find peace and acceptance, and get on with your life.

1. Step 1

   Give yourself time. Don't expect to be able to forgive someone immediately. This is a multi-step process and will likely come in stages as you move towards acceptance of what has happened. How much time it takes varies from individual to individual, so don't compare yourself to anyone else.

2. Step 2

   Allow yourself to work through and process your own feelings and emotions before you attempt to forgive your partner's betrayal. Go to see a therapist, journal, read books/articles on affairs, and look at on-line support groups. You must get all the emotions out that you are dealing with. Don't allow anyone to minimize them. These are real, painful, and must be dealt with and expressed so you can heal and move forward.

3. Step 3

   Join a support group. It helps to have a group of people to support you who have been through the same thing. You will find people at different stages in the recovery process. This helps you to see how far you have come and where you are headed. You can find support groups by searching on-line. Support groups are often available at local churches, community centers, or at counseling centers. There are also on-line support groups. I recommend a face-to-face group over an on-line community if possible.

4. Step 4

   As you continue to heal and express all the emotions that have surfaced, you may find yourself able to look at your partner's actions with less anger. When you get to the point where you can listen to and understand the reasons that your partner cheated, you will be on your way. Again, this is not condoning their actions. This is looking at them with compassion and understanding that they acted the way they did to satisfy their own needs. As heartless as this sounds, it helps to understand that their actions were not about you. You are good enough, attractive enough, smart enough, etc... The person they cheated with is NOT in some way better than you! Understand, know, and believe that your partner's actions really had NOTHING to do with you. They were done because your partner needed something and he/she went about getting it in a way that hurt you tremendously.

5. Step 5

   Work to recover your self-esteem. Take small steps every day to nuture, affirm, and love yourself. Eat healthy, exercise, and take quiet peaceful time for yourself every single day. Do things you love even when you feel sad, angry, or confused. Eventually the pain will begin to retreat. At first, you may find only seconds of peace and then it will be minutes. Eventually, you will get to the point where you can get through an hour, two hours, etc... without thinking about what has happened. As you heal, recommit to living your life for yourself. Go back to activities that brought you happiness or take the first step to develop a talent that you always wanted to nourish. As you feel better and better about yourself, your world will begin to seem brighter as well.

6. Step 6

   The more you are able to focus on yourself (your healing, your self-esteem, your recovery), the better you will feel eventually. After you have allowed yourself recovery and healing time, you will get to a place where you have space in your heart to look at your partner with greater compassion. Say every day: "I forgive (Name) and let go of my hurt, anger, and pain." Forgiveness for me came in stages and they were not always consistent. I found myself moving forward and then moving back a step or two. This is normal so be easy on yourself.

7. Step 7

   Set boundaries for yourself. Healthy boundaries are needed for you to recover and heal. It is impossible to heal when you are still in a situation where your partner is cheating or where you don't know if he/she will again or not. If you decide to stay with your partner, set boundaries and limits that allow you to feel safe. If you need to know your partner's schedule to the minute, then state that. You may ask to see their telephone, e-mail, credit card, bank statements etc... to verify that they are telling the truth. That's okay - it is up to your partner to earn your trust back if you want to keep him/her in your life. Regardless of whether you decided to stay with your partner or leave, forgiveness is essential so you can move forward with your own life.

8. Step 8

   A final stage of forgiveness is looking at the good that has come from the situation. What positive experiences, ideas, etc.. came about because of what you went through? In the middle of chaos, there is always opportunity. Take this opportunity to transform your life into something better, brighter, and more empowering than ever before. When you are able to forgive someone who has betrayed you, you will look at the world with a new perspective. You will be more able to separate people from their actions and look at them with compassion rather than judgement. Looking at the world in this way, opens up so many doors for you and those around you. My life has been completely transformed by my experience. I am more grateful for everything in my life because I know it can be taken away at any moment. I am more loving, more compassionate, and more able to forgive because I was able to forgive something that I once thought was unforgivable. I love myself more, take more time for myself, and feel happier and more peaceful than I ever have. I have recommitted to developing myself in every way and being the best woman I can be. Keep in mind that this didn't happen overnight. It's been a little over two years since I found out and I've done a lot of healing work to get to the point I am today.

P/S:

Things You'll Need:

• Time
• Compassion
• New Perspective

How to End an Argument and Forgive Others

1. Step 1

   Remember that tomorrow is not promised. Every minute we have is precious. Why waste it being upset at someone? And what if that person won't be there tomorrow? Being angry is not the way you'd like to remember that person.

2. Step 2

   Let go of who is right or wrong. That is not important. What is important is maintaining a relationship with the person.

3. Step 3

   Think about the reason the argument started. It almost always is something unimportant in the whole scheme of things.

4. Step 4

   Realize that arguments are most often misunderstandings and that hurting you was probably just the end result, not the intention.

5. Step 5

   Make the first move. Especially if you are dealing with a stubborn person. Just call him/her or reach out.

6. Step 6

   Keep in mind that ending an argument is beneficial for both of you. Hurt feelings weigh a lot and can be a burden for both of you.

How to Let Go of The Past

1. Step 1

   The bible says love keeps no record or wrong so why do we keep records. Some people have a naughty list longer than Santa's toy list. When we hold things against people we are actually hurting ourselves. You may say how can you prove this, well here's how. Whenever you think about what someone did to you in the past what happens to your emotions. Are you still jolly like Saint Nicholas, are you still thinking happy thoughts. If you feel your emotions starting to change that is good indication you haven't let go.

2. Step 2

   Of course you can't forget what happened but you can let it go. One of the ways to let it go is to make amend with that person you have something against. Every time you relive that moment you are making it harder and harder to let go. Don't relive your moments make new ones. Whenever you feel yourself starting to journey in the past stop yourself, and start thinking on good things.

3. Step 3

   One thing you can do is write a letter to yourself or to God about everything the person did towards you. After you read the letter take it and burn it. By burning the letter you are symbolizing to yourself that you are letting go. You can also read the letter to the person, sharing how you felt and feel even now about what happened in the past. Sometimes we cant let go because we never got the issue of our chest.

4. Step 4

   As long as your bury your feeling they are still buried. Unless you let them resurface. This is why reading the letter to yourself or to the person will help you to let go. If you have to cry, then cry, but the point is once you let it go don't go back to that place move forward.

How to Hold a Grudge

1. Step 1

   Play the act repeatedly in your mind. Whether it is a harmful word or an action, if you replay it in your head you eventually will attain genuine grudge holding mode. When you actually try to let go of the pain and move on from the incident, it is more difficult to hold a grudge. Why make life hard?

2. Step 2

   Cling to bitterness. This is the key to holding a grudge. No matter who hurt you, retain the bitterness that you feel toward that person for having the audacity to be mean.

3. Step 3

   Retaliate. To really hold a grudge, don't just sit with your pain. The thought of revenge will emerge, and you should take advantage of your need to retaliate.

4. Step 4

   Tell your friends. When telling and retelling a story, it helps to relive the experience and share your pain with others. As your friends begin to take your side and support your grudge, you will find it easier to hold onto.

5. Step 5

   Take the easy route. Forgiveness is difficult. By holding fast to your grudge, you are obeying the words of that Zen sage who advised us to follow the path of least resistance.

How to Stop Holding a Grudge

1. Step 1

   Decide to move on. You expend more energy holding a grudge than you do letting one go. Make the choice to clear up the mental space occupied by this resentment. Once you choose to move on, the grudge will gradually dissipate.

2. Step 2

   Honor your feelings. Resentment builds when emotions go unacknowledged. Take the time to get clear about what you're feeling and why. Take action accordingly. If you have something that needs to be said, say it. If you have already voiced your grievance, then resolve any other feelings yourself.

3. Step 3

   Accept what is. Stop waiting for signs of remorse. Chances are the other person has already put the issue behind them. You may never get an apology, but that doesn't mean you should continue to indulge resentment. Be the bigger person and put the incident behind you.

4. Step 4

   Forgive. Forgiving someone doesn't exempting them from their actions. It doesn't change the facts. If you have been legitimately wronged, then forgiving doesn't mean you have to forget. It does mean that you acknowledge that the person is human and that we all make mistakes.

5. Step 5

   Shift your focus. Look at the good things about the person. Find the positive in the situation. Maybe you learned a lesson and discovered something new about yourself. Changing your viewpoint will help you release resentment.

6. Step 6

   Don't feed the monster. Once you've voiced your resentment and committed to moving on, don't continually talk about the offense. If you find yourself thinking about it, mentally change the subject. If someone brings it up, explain that it's in the past and you don't want to dwell on it

How to Spot True Friends

1. Step 1

   True friends are loyal. Loyalty is a quality we all treasure in our true friends. A loyal friend, as opposed to a "fair weather" friend, is someone who stands by your side and does not abandon you ever, even when (or perhaps especially when) you are going through a difficult time. (In contrast, a "fair weather friend" only sticks around when times are good, and is quick to "abandon ship" when life gets more challenging.) When people are loyal to their friends through thick and thin, this character trait speaks volumes about their inner character.

2. Step 2

   True friends, in addition to being loyal, are also honest. Honesty does not have to be cruel or excessively sharp, mind you. But your true friends should be able to speak to you directly and candidly. When a true friend offers you criticism, it is typically meant to be constructive, not destructive or hurtful. You can usually tell by the way someone offers criticism (and by how you feel when you are on the receiving end of their criticism) whether it is well intended or not.

3. Step 3

   A true friend is often on the same general wavelength with you in terms of humor. This does not mean that the two of you need to have identical senses of humor, but that each of you should "get" (and appreciate) what sorts of things make the other one laugh. People that are not "in synch" when it comes to humor can sometimes have a hard time remaining friends over the course of time because humor is one of those key areas that can bring friends closer or drive them apart. (For instance, if someone persistently uses humor that you find offensive or excessively sarcastic or hurtful, this can be a "red flag" that ultimately calls their character into question for you.)

4. Step 4

   Regarding true friends, it helps when the two of you have a lot of interests and passions in common, but not all of your passions and interests need to intersect exactly with your friend's interests, because it is also enriching (and adds some "flavor" and "texture" to a friendship) when the two of you have some differences in your interests as well.

5. Step 5

   In addition to loyalty, honesty and humor, another way to spot true friends has to do with a particular friendship standing the test of time. As you already know, sometimes talking to an old true friend can be particularly satisfying because your oldest true friends often know the most about your history, and often share the greatest amount of common history with you, which means that each of you has a lot of "insider" knowledge about the other (insider jokes, etc.), and the two of you therefore have a sort of "friendship shorthand" together, where you don't have to rehash a lot of old stories from the very beginning, because you were both there, or you both know what was happening in each of your lives at a particular time.

6. Step 6

   Of course, while older true friends are great for many reasons, including your shared history, newer true friends can be precious to you in other, equally important ways. For instance, you may meet a new true friend by participating in new hobbies and passions, and the two of you may have that particular passion or hobby (such as skiing) in common, whereas your older true friends may or may not share this particular interest with you.

How to Not Hold A Grudge

1. step 1

   Try dwelling more on the positive aspects of people, even the ones who have angered you. When people do things that inflame your anger, it can be very difficult to view such people in a positive light. And you don't have to do so right away. But after some time passes, you may want to reconsider.

2. Step 2

   When making an effort not to hold a grudge, think about all the negative physical effects that holding on to anger (and other negative feelings) can do to a person. Anger causes stress, which in turn can cause ulcers, headaches, elevated blood pressure, and in the long term, even heart trouble.

3. Step 3

   Chances are the person against whom you are holding the grudge is probably not giving you and your thoughts and feelings a second thought, so why devote any more of your emotional energy to them, if they are (most likely) not devoting much emotional energy at all to thinking about you?

4. Step 4

   Put yourself in the other person's shoes. Of course, this can be extremely challenging, but it can also help you to understand where they are coming from and why they behave the way they do. For instance, if the person who angered you is experiencing difficulties of any kind, it helps to remember that people's circumstances and personal struggles can affect their behavior, often in negative ways. This does not excuse their bad behavior, but it can help you understand it. And the more you understand someone and what drives them to do the things they do the easier it is not to hold a grudge against them for too long.

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Things You'll Need:

• A desire to control your anger and learn how to not hold a grudge against someone who has angered you.

How to trust your partner

The best parts of being in a relationship are the moments of shared intimacy and trust. You have chosen someone to open up top, someone that you feel you can trust with your heart and soul. That is why it is so devastating to find out that he has been cheating on you. The aftermath of this revelation is hard on both of you - it is tough on you because your trust has been betrayed, and it is tough on him because he knows how angry and hurt you are.

It would not be easy - rebuilding trust never is - but if you remember a few important things, you can make your relationship stronger than it was before:

1. Rebuilding trust is something you have to do together.
This is going to be tough, because you are both very unhappy - essentially, you are working on a relationship with someone you do not trust. You may need to take a "cooling off" period, after which you agree to rebuild trust. But it will take both of you. If either of you is not serious about doing the work necessary to repair your relationship, you are sunk. Take some time to get clear, ask yourself if you want to work on this relationship, and whether you can deal with the problem of having had to live in the past. If you can forgive, and understand that most of our miseries come from living in the past, you have a higher chance of rebuilding trust in this relationship.

2. Acknowledge your emotions.
You are both going to be feeling hurt, angry and sad after you find out about his cheating. Both of you have to deal with your feelings in a mature, communicative fashion. You will want him to understand your point of view and the pain you are feeling - but you are going to also have to listen to him and try to understand how he feels, too.

Take care to make each other feel understood rather than dwelling on accusations and apologies. Try to see the situation from his perspective, and acknowledge his feelings verbally (statements like, "I know you are confused and angry right now") and own up to anything that you have done wrong, too.

3. Make the right kind of apologies.
"I'm sorry" is not a free pass, nor is it a reset button that puts everything back the way it was before. In fact, your guy probably blurted out "I'm sorry" as soon as he got caught, in the hopes that it would magically make the whole problem disappear. A genuine apology is not a token designed to appease your partner - real apologies, from the heart, only work after they have been given some thought. They also do not come with excuses attached - "I'm sorry, but ..." negates the apology entirely. Apologizing should not be seen as another opportunity to say you were right! If he offers you an "I'm sorry, but .." apology, tell him that you would prefer an apology that do not have a "but" attached.

4. Both of you need to make promises for the future.
These may be as simple as "I won't cheat anymore" or as complicated as "I promise to let you know where I am when I'm not at work." These cannot be demands - they must be mutually agreed upon things that can reasonably been accomplished, related to the problem of his cheating. And you need to be very clear that both of you understand what these promises entail.

5. The promises you make while rebuilding trust must be kept.
After all, lack of trust is the problem here. Promises made must be kept when trying to rebuild trust. If one of you breaks a promise during this period, the resulting anger and disappointment will make matters even worse. It can even do more damage than the cheating did, because it shows that even when you know that your relationship hangs in the balance, you cannot be trusted to keep your word.

5. Keep the lines of communication open.
It will take more than a few apologies and promises to rebuild trust. You will need to talk about your fears, appreciate each other's good qualities, continue to talk about the promises you have made to each other, and continue to strengthen the bond that solidifies your relationship.

Rebuilding trust after your partner cheats is a lot of work. But if both of you are fully committed to the process, you may find that your love can grow even stronger with better communication and respect.

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Puasa Di Bulan Ramadhan menurut baginda s.a.w

Sebelum menjalankan ibadat Ramadan, ada beberapa perkara yang perlu difahami, di antaranya ialah puasa Ramadan adalah rukun Islam yang keempat.

Hukumnya adalah fardu (wajib) yang langsung dari perintah Allah SWT, sebagaimana firman-Nya yang bermaksud: Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, diwajibkan atas kamu sekalian berpuasa sebagaimana diwajibkan atas orang-orang sebelum kamu, semoga kamu menjadi orang-orang yang bertakwa. (al-Baqarah: 183).

Dalam hadis dijelaskan, sabda Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud: Sesungguhnya Islam itu dibangun di atas lima (dasar). Kesaksian bahawa tidak ada Tuhan yang berhak disembah selain Allah dan Muhammad itu adalah utusan-Nya, menegakkan solat, menunaikan zakat, melaksanakan puasa Ramadan dan menunaikan haji. (riwayat Muslim).

Dari ayat dan hadis di atas berpuasa Ramadan hukumnya wajib atas setiap Muslim dan Muslimat yang sihat akalnya, dan telah mukalaf, tidak dalam keadaan musafir dan sakit. Khususnya bagi wanita, tidak dalam keadaan haid dan nifas.

Allah SWT mensyariatkan berpuasa dan pelbagai ibadat Ramadan sebagai salah satu program yang harus dilalui setiap muslim dan mukmin dalam pembentukan karakter takwa mereka.

Sebaliknya ancaman keras bagi orang-orang beriman yang tidak melaksanakan ibadat puasa Ramadan.

Ia sebagaimana yang disabdakan Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud: Ikatan dan penegak agama Islam itu ada tiga. Siapa yang meninggalkan salah satu darinya, maka ia telah kafir, halal darahnya iaitu: syahadat, solat fardu, puasa Ramadan. (riwayat Abu Ya'la dan Dailami). Yang dimaksudkan kafir ialah hukumnya seperti murtad.

Dalam hadis lain Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang bermaksud: Siapa yang berbuka satu hari dalam bulan Ramadan tanpa ada rukhsah (faktor yang membolehkan berbuka) dari Allah, maka tidak akan tergantikan walaupun ia melaksanakan puasa sepanjang masa. (riwayat Abu Daud, Ibnu Majah dan Tirmizi).

Jenis-jenis puasa itu terbahagi dua, pertama puasa fardu (wajib), dan kedua puasa tathowwu' (puasa sunat).

Adapun puasa wajib terbahagi tiga, pertama puasa Ramadan, iaitu puasa yang dilaksanakan selama bulan Ramadan seperti dijelaskan dalam surah al-Baqarah: 183.

Kedua, puasa kaffarat (puasa denda), iaitu puasa yang wajib dilakukan sebagai denda dari pelanggaran hukum seperti pelanggaran dalam ibadat haji, membunuh tidak sengaja, melanggar sumpah dan sebagainya.

Ketiga, adalah puasa nazar, iaitu jika seseorang bernazar dengan berpuasa bagi perkara yang dinazarkannya seperti jika ia sembuh dari penyakit dan sebagainya maka ia bernazar untuk berpuasa. Puasa seperti ini disebut dengan puasa nazar dan wajib hukumnya.

Puasa tathowwu' (puasa sunat), adalah puasa enam hari di bulan Syawal. Dalam hadis Rasulullah SAW dijelaskan: Siapa yang berpuasa Ramadan, kemudian dia teruskan dengan enam hari di bulan Syawal, seakan dia berpuasa sepanjang masa (tahun). (riwayat al-Jamaah kecuali Bukhari, Nasa'i)

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Isu Tarian Pendet selesai – TPM

Isu Tarian Pendet selesai – TPM

PUTRAJAYA 3 Sept. – Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin berkata, klip video 30 saat yang sebahagian kecilnya memaparkan Tarian Pendet diterbitkan oleh Discovery Networks Asia-Pacific dan tidak ada kena mengenai dengan pihak berkuasa di Malaysia.

Kata Timbalan Perdana Menteri, penerbit itu juga telah menjelaskan keadaan sebenar dan memohon maaf kepada kerajaan Indonesia berhubung perkara tersebut.

Beliau berkata, penerbit dokumentari berkenaan telah menjelaskan situasi sebenar melalui sepucuk surat kepada Menteri Kebudayaan dan Pelancongan Indonesia, Jero Wacik.

Sehubungan itu, beliau berharap isu Tarian Pendet dari Bali yang didakwa dicuri oleh Malaysia selesai.

“Penerbit klip itu telah menulis memohon maaf dan menjelaskan situasi sebenar bahawa filem tersebut bukan datang daripada pihak berkuasa Malaysia tapi dilakukan oleh mereka.

“Saya harap episod ini terhenti di situ dan segala penjelasan diterima oleh pihak Indonesia,” katanya.

Beliau berkata demikian pada sidang akhbar selepas mempengerusikan mesyuarat jawatankuasa Kabinet mengenai pelancongan di sini hari ini.

Penayangan klip komersial yang mengandungi elemen Tarian Pendet bagi mempromosi siri dokumentari Enigmatic Malaysia di Discovery Channel telah menimbulkan kemarahan Kerajaan Indonesia baru-baru ini.

Situasi menjadi bertambah buruk apabila pihak media massa tempatan membuat tuduhan melulu menyatakan Malaysia sengaja mencuri kebudayaan Indonesia untuk melariskan pelancongan sendiri.

Ekoran kontroversi tersebut, berlaku demonstrasi bantahan di Kedutaan Besar Malaysia di Jakarta selain panggilan bom palsu dan bendera Jalur Gemilang dibakar.

Menurut Muhyiddin, sepatutnya perkara itu tidak berbangkit memandangkan iklan yang disiarkan bukan dihasilkan oleh mana-mana pihak di Malaysia.

Sementara itu, Menteri Pelancongan, Datuk Seri Dr. Ng Yen Yen memberitahu, beliau ada menerima salinan surat berkenaan daripada Discovery Networks Asia-Pacific.

Katanya, surat berkenaan dihantar kepada Kerajaan Indonesia sebaik sahaja kontroversi Tarian Pendet timbul.

http://www.utusan.com.my/utusan/info.asp?y=2009&dt=0904&pub=Utusan_Malaysia&sec=Dalam_Negeri&pg=dn_04.htm

Kenape dunia sekarang dah jadi macam ni????

Kebudayaan? Kebudayaan apakah? adakah kebudayaan yang dibawa oleh Parameswara sewaktu memerintah Melaka kalau kita lihat menerusi sejarah peradaban dunia. Parameswara dari Majapahit. In addition, Parameswara is Putera Palembang. Baginda memerintah Melaka agak lama sehingga mempunyai waris buat mewarisi takhta. Jadi adat mana yang kita nak salahkan sekarang ni? Budaya dari siapa? Hello!!!!! kita just manusia biasa la. Ada yang lagi berhak nak claim diri kita ni. Yang Maha Berkuasa~


Satu kata--->> SILA RUJUK SEJARAH PERADABAN DUNIA..

Untuk pengetahuan umum, Malaysia adalah negara yang terdiri daripada berbilang kaum dan bangsa. Ini bererti bukan sahaja Melayu yang tinggal di Malaysia. Terdapat kaum Cina dari China, India dari India sendiri. Juga terdapat Indonesia atau lebih dikenali sebagai orang Jawa dan Minang yang bermastautin tetap di Malaysia. Majoriti kami adalah 'mixed'. Jadi, disini saya ingin tekankan bahawa Malaysia tidak terdiri dari satu budaya sahaja.

Maaf kalau aku agak keras, tapi seriously aku agak bosan la dgr bende2 macam ni..n plus balak aku sendiri pon Indonesian.

Aku harap sangat semua ni boleh settle dan jadi aman.

last but not least..I'm sorry if i am wrong and once again we don't want any war between muslims aite? ade aku penah dgr satu hadis kalau xsilap berbunyi "Islam itu tidak akan kalah kalau bukan dari dalam..."

sekian.

AN EYE FOR AN EYE MAKES THE WORLD GO BLIND

By Mahatma Ghandi

maaf zahir batin
Ramadhan Kareem

Kenapa Wanita Menangis

Seorang anak laki-laki
kecil bertanya kepada ibunya "Mengapa
engkau menangis?"

"Kerana aku seorang
wanita", kata sang ibu kepadanya.

"Aku tidak mengerti",
kata anak itu.

Ibunya hanya memeluknya
dan berkata, "Dan kau tak akan pernah
mengerti"

Kemudian anak laki-laki
itu bertanya kepada ayahnya, "Mengapa
ibu suka menangis tanpa alasan?"

"Semua wanita menangis
tanpa alasan", hanya itu yang dapat
dikatakan oleh ayahnya.

Anak laki-laki kecil itu
pun lalu tumbuh menjadi seorang
laki-laki dewasa, tetap ingin tahu
mengapa wanita menangis.

Akhirnya ia menghubungi
Tuhan, dan ia bertanya, "Tuhan, mengapa
wanita begitu mudah menangis?"

Allah berfirman:

"Ketika Aku menciptakan
seorang wanita, ia diharuskan untuk
menjadi seorang yang istimewa. Aku
membuat bahunya cukup kuat untuk
menopang dunia; namun, harus cukup
lembut untuk memberikan kenyamanan "

"Aku memberikannya
kekuatan dari dalam untuk mampu
melahirkan anak dan menerima penolakan
yang seringkali datang dari anak-anaknya "

"Aku memberinya
kekerasan untuk membuatnya tetap tegar
ketika orang-orang lain menyerah, dan
mengasuh keluarganya dengan penderitaan
dan kelelahan tanpa mengeluh "

"Aku memberinya kepekaan
untuk mencintai anak-anaknya dalam
setiap keadaan, bahkan ketika anaknya
bersikap sangat menyakiti hatinya "

"Aku memberinya kekuatan
untuk mendukung suaminya dalam
kegagalannya dan melengkapi dengan
tulang rusuk suaminya untuk melindungi
hatinya "

"Aku memberinya
kebijaksanaan untuk mengetahui bahwa
seorang suami yang baik takkan pernah
menyakiti isterinya, tetapi kadang
menguji kekuatannya dan ketetapan
hatinya untuk berada disisi suaminya
tanpa ragu"

"Dan akhirnya, Aku
memberinya air mata untuk dititiskan dan
ini adalah khusus miliknya untuk
digunakan bilapun ia perlukan."

"Kau tahu;kecantikan
seorang wanita bukanlah dari pakaian
yang dikenakannya, susuk yang ia
tampilkan, atau bagaimana ia menyisir
rambutnya."

"Kecantikan seorang
wanita harus dilihat dari matanya,
kerana itulah pintu hatinya.. Tempat
dimana cinta itu ada."

4 Perkara

4 perkara yang membuatkan badan sakit:

1. banyak bicara akan membuat kemampuan otak menurun, cepat tumbuhkan uban.
2. banyak tiduràwajah pucat, hati menjadi buta, mengeringkan mata, malas bekerja,cenderung berperilaku kasar,mendatangkan penyakit2 yang tiada ubat.
3. banyak makan
4. banyak membuat hubungan badan :badan lemah, kekuatan menurun, menurunkan kesegaran tubuh, membuat otot mengendur.

4 perkara merosakkan tubuh:

1. cemas
2. sedih berpanjangan
3. lapar
4. kurang tidur malam

4 perkara memberikan kesenangan dalam hati:

1. melihat yang hijau2
2. melihat air yang mengalir
3. melihat kekasih
4. melihat buah-buahan

4 perkara membuat pandangan gelap

1. berjalan tanpa kasut
2. pagi dan petang dengan wajah muram penuh dengan kemusuhan
3. banyak menangis
4. banyak menatap gais yang kecil2

4 perkara badan jadi kuat

1. memakai pakaian yang lembut
2. mandi dgn air panas
3. memakan makanan yg manis dan berlemak
4. mencium wangian

4 perkara menghilangkan kesegaran wajah

1. berbohong
2. tidak tahu malu
3. terlalu banyak bertanya yang tanpa dasar
4. melakukan maksiat

4 perkara menyegarkan wajah

1. menjaga harga diri
2. menepati janji
3. dermawan
4. taqwa

4 perkara mendatangkan rezeki

1. bangun malam untuk solat
2. banyak beristighfar menjelang fajar
3. membiasakan memberi
4. berzikir di ptg ari

4 perkara mencegah dtgnya rezeki:

1. tidur di pagi hari
2. jarang solat
3. malas
4. suka berkhianat

4 perkara membahayakan pemahaman otak:

1. ketagihan makanan dan buah2 yg masam
2. tidur terlentang
3. resah
4. gundah gulana

4 perkara yang menambah daya permahaman

1. hati yg bersih
2. tidak menyelangi makanan dengan minuman ke dalam tubuh dengan berlebihan
3. mengatur menu makanan yang baik dan menambahkan makanan manis dan berlemak
4. membuang semua endapan makanan yang memberatkan badan

Nie aku rembat from member aku punye member punye blog..
thanks anyway....

ARKIB : 17/06/2009 Utusan Malaysia

MASIH ramai yang ingat kisah mukjizat Nabi Musa a.s membelah Laut Merah dengan tongkatnya ketika dikejar oleh Firaun dan bala tenteranya. Kini penyelidikan telah membongkar rahsia ajaib tersebut.

Seorang arkeologi Ron Wyatt, akhir tahun 1988, menyatakan dia telah menemui beberapa bangkai roda kereta tempur kuno di dasar Laut Merah.

Menurutnya, mungkin ini merupakan bangkai kereta tempur Firaun yang tenggelam di laut itu sewaktu digunakan untuk mengejar Nabi Musa bersama para pengikutnya.

Selain menemukan beberapa bangkai roda kereta tempur berkuda, Wyatt bersama para krunya juga menemukan beberapa tulang manusia dan tulang kuda di tempat yang sama.

Penemuan ini tentunya semakin memperkuat dakwaan bahawa sisa-sisa tulang belulang itu merupakan bahagian dari kerangka para bala tentera Firaun yang tenggelam di Laut Merah.

Di samping itu, hasil ujian di Stockhlom University terhadap beberapa sisa tulang belulang yang berhasil ditemukan, mengesahkan adanya struktur dan kandungan beberapa tulang berusia sekitar 3,500 tahun silam, di mana sejarah, kejadian pengejaran dalam kurun waktu yang sama.

Adalah suatu hal yang menarik, yang juga berhasil ditemukan iaitu roda salah satu kereta kuda yang kini keseluruhannya telah tertutup oleh batu karang. Sehingga waktu ini bentuk aslinya sangat sukar untuk dilihat secara jelas dan nyata.

Mungkin Allah SWT sengaja melindungi benda ini untuk menunjukkan kepada kita semua bahawa mukjizat yang diturunkan kepada para nabi-Nya merupakan suatu hal yang nyata dan bukan cerita dongeng.

Di antara beberapa bangkai kereta tadi, ditemukan pula sebuah roda dengan empat jeriji yang terbuat dari emas. Sepertinya, inilah sisa dari roda kereta yang ditunggangi oleh Firaun.

Pada bahagian peta yang dilingkari (lingkaran merah), menurut para ahli, kira-kira di situlah lokasi di mana Nabi Musa bersama para kaumnya menyeberangi Laut Merah. Lokasi penyeberangan diperkirakan berada di Teluk Aqaba di Nuweiba.

Kedalaman maksimum perairan di sekitar lokasi penyeberangan adalah 800 meter di sisi ke arah Mesir dan 900m di sisi ke arah Arab.

Sementara itu, di sisi utara dan selatan lintasan penyeberangan (garis merah) kedalamannya mencapai 1,500 meter.

Kemiringan laut dari Nuweiba ke arah Teluk Aqaba sekitar 1/14 darjah, dari Teluk Nuweiba ke arah daratan Arab sekitar 1/10 atau 6 darjah.

Diperkirakan jarak antara Nuweiba ke Arab sekitar 1,800 meter. Lebar lintasan Laut Merah yang terbelah diperkirakan 900 meter.

Dapatkah kita membayangkan, berapa gaya (tenaga) yang diperlukan untuk membelah air laut hingga memiliki lebar lintasan 900 meter dengan jarak 1,800 meter untuk membolehkan ratusan ribu pengikut Nabi Musa melaluinya.

Tujuh kilometer

Menurut tulisan lain dikatakan jaraknya mencapai tujuh kilometer, dengan jumlah pengikut Nabi Musa sekitar 600,000 orang dan waktu yang ditempuh untuk menyeberangi sekitar empat jam.

Kajian sebuah perhitungan, dianggarkan diperlukan tekanan sebesar 2.800.000 Newton/m2 atau setara dengan tekanan yang kita terima jika menyelam di laut hingga kedalaman 280 meter.

Jika kita kaitkan dengan kecepatan angin, menurut beberapa perhitungan, sekurangnya diperlukan hembusan angin dengan kecepatan malar 30 meter/detik (180 km/jam) sepanjang malam untuk dapat membelah dan mempertahankan belahan air laut tersebut dalam jangka waktu empat jam.

Sungguh aneh dan ajaib ciptaan Allah SWT. Allah Maha Besar lagi Maha Berkuasa. Firman Allah bermaksud: Setelah mereka menyebabkan kemurkaan Kami, Kami menyeksa mereka, iaitu Kami menenggelamkan mereka semuanya di laut hingga binasa. Maka Kami jadikan mereka contoh dan pengajaran bagi orang-orang yang datang kemudian. (az-Zukhruf: 55-56).

Menurut pendapat lain, kata yang diterjemahkan sebagai Laut Merah (Red Sea) sebenarnya adalah Laut Alang-Alang (Sea of Reeds). Kata ini dikenal sebagai Laut Merah, namun Laut Alang-Alang sebenarnya digunakan untuk merujuk kepada pantai Laut Tengah di Mesir.

Dalam Perjanjian Lama, ketika menyebutkan jalur yang diambil oleh Nabi Musa dan para pengikutnya, ia terletak di utara Delta Nil di pantai Mesir.

Sebagai implikasinya Laut Alang-Alang mendukung kemungkinan bahawa kejadian tersebut terjadi di pantai Mesir, kerana di daerah ini sesuai dengan namanya, banyak tumbuh alang-alang berkat tanah lumpur delta.

Pendapat majoriti terkini mengenalpasti Laut Merah dalam Eksodus sebagai sebuah laguna di pantai Laut Tengah yang terletak di sebelah utara delta di sekitar Semenanjung Sinai.

Al-Quran menggambarkan saat-saat terakhir kehidupan Firaun sebagai berikut: Dan Kami memungkinkan Bani Israel melintasi laut, lalu mereka diikuti oleh Firaun dan bala tenteranya, kerana hendak menganiaya dan menindas mereka, hingga bila Firaun itu telah hampir tenggelam berkatalah ia: "Aku percaya bahawa tidak ada Tuhan melainkan Tuhan yang dipercayai oleh Bani Israel, dan aku termasuk orang-orang yang berserah diri (kepada Allah). (Yunus: 90).

Namun apa yang diucapkan oleh Firaun telah terlambat, pintu taubat telah tertutup. Pengakuannya menjadi sia-sia sahaja, walaupun ia mengakui menyerah diri kepada Allah SWT.

Pengikut-pengikut Firaun, sebagaimana Firaun sendiri, juga menerima bahagian hukuman mereka. Ini kerana bala tentera Firaun adalah orang yang angkara murka dan penuh kebencian.

Seperti halnya Firaun, mereka pun wajar menerima hukuman dari Allah. Maka Allah pun melemparkan Firaun dan bala tenteranya ke dalam dasar laut.

Firman Allah bermaksud: Dengan sebab itu, Kami mengepungnya bersama-sama tenteranya serta Kami humbankan mereka ke dalam laut, maka perhatikanlah bagaimana buruknya kesudahan orang-orang yang zalim. (al-Qasas: 40)

PeriBAHASA baru

1. Seperti anjing jantan dgn anjing betina.

Maknernyer: Dua orang yg pantang bertemu.... asek nak beromen aje.

2. Sepandai-pandai lalat terbang akhirnya ke taik jugak dia hinggap.

Maknernyer: Orang kalau dah perokok tu... kalau dia berenti.... akhirnya dia gerenti start balik punyer.

3. Sepandai-pandai tupai melompat, tak pernah masok ke sukan Olimpik.

Maknernyee : Jangan budget bagus.... pasal yg macam bagus tu selalunya tak bagus. jadi kena ler betul-betul bagus.

4. Biar putih tulang jgn putih muker.

Maknernyee: Kalau surat beranak dah letak nama orang Melayu jgn eksen nak jadi Mat Salleh plak......be proud of what you are.

5. Seperti mencurah air ke jamban tersumbat

Maknernyer: Kalau dah beribu kali flush itu bender tak clear jugak.....pergi panggil plumber lah.....or....kacau sampai hancur and try flushing again, another way is to kutip satu-satu dan buang tempat lain. (Eeee..... GELI)

6. Kalau tidak ader angin masakan satu LRT boleh bau busuk?

Maknernyer: Ada orang kentotlah tu...

7. Seperti kacang luperkan nama.

Maknernyer: Orang yg tak sedar diri....tak kenang jasa baik orang yg muler-muler mempopularkan dia.

8. Ader udang di sebalik udang lain

Maknernyer: Jgn sangka yg dok berdua kat tempat sunyi tu 2 tu jer....check betul-betul, mesti ader sorang lagi kat bawah ke....tengah ke...baring ke.

9. Biar mati anak jgn mati pucuk

Maknernyer: Kalau dah mati pucuk camner nak dapat anak?

10. Sudah jatuh ditimpa piano

Maknernyer: Nasib malang yg tak agak-agak.

11. Hidung tak mancung, gigi yang Jongang

Maknernyer: ...maknernyer, ......maknernyer, jgn nak

tersengeh-sengeh kat depan PC... pi buat kerje hang skarang!!!